Hey friends !! welcome to my blog !!! I am just a small town cutie who loves shopping a lottt !!!!!!!! This blog is not about anything creative- my poems, stories etc etc !! Its just the way I feel and things I love !! so I hope you would like reading it !! : )

Saturday, April 30, 2011

life is what you make it !!!

Well its been 20days since I have come home for my summer internship.. And these days am pursuing my hobby of reading books really seriously!!!
So in a matter of 20days am done with 8books straight!! :P

They all have been mostly- college life-lovc stories-careers-breakups and also SHOPPING- my 1st love :P
hehehee... bt well the novel I found the best amongst them and also 1 of the best amongst all the books I have read till date is-" Life is What You Make it by Preeti Shenoy" !!
I had considered it to be just like the other love stories based on college life- like the rage in young authors today!!

But I was wrong... This was a kinda eye-opener novel for me...
Since past few weeks I had been continuously sad about this heartbreak I was going through and felt that life has no meaning now...and everything is turning soo pathetic for me..blah blah blah...
But this novel made me realize that its not what life is doing with me.. Its what I am doing with myself...

Life's not just about romance..relationships..break-ups..patch-ups.. Its much more than that.. Its about how you deal with your life..your problems..how strong you are to overcome little obstacles in life..
And I just thought my life is worse because I had few fights with my friends or a heartbreak!!
The novel is about a girl who follows her dreams, her ambitions... but in the persue of her aims...she forgets to live and treasure her life...
But well late is better than never...
She understands in right time that it's time to make her life better and worth living.. And life is not always about getting into your dream MBA college..getting the degree and a well-paying job!!
What fun it would be if you are not happy with what you have!!!

So what I learnt from the book was that there would be obstacles in life..there would be fights..heartbreaks...failures and all such small problems everytime!!
But its not the end of everything...
Be true to yourself...RESPECT yourself!!!!!!!!!
Yess that's what I have to do..respect my life...And feel satisfied with whatever I have.. ofcourse not forgetting to achieve my dreams nd goals!!!!!!!!!
And when you'll start respecting yourself that's when your life would start improving.. or you would start feeling..that yesss its on the right track!!!!!!!!!!!!

So at the end...its rightly said- Life's what you make it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its all about YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!

Also this reminds me of the song by Miley Cyrus-

Life's what you make it
So let's make it rock
Life's what you make it
So come on, come on, come on, everybody now

Why be sad broken hearted?
There's so much to do
Life is hard or it's a party
The choice is up to you !!!!!!!!!! yay yayy!!!!!!!!! : ) : )

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Just my thoughts !!

Hi everyone!!
soo this is my post at my blog I had created 3 years back !!
Never had felt like writing anything or maybe never paid much thought over it!!
Last 1 year I had seen many many changes in my life.. friends..relationships..love.. I experienced it all!!

But LoVe???

I still wonder what exactly is love !! Is it when a mother sacrifices her own happiness to see her child happy.. Or when a person fights with his/her whole family to be with the one he/she loves a lott!! or when a person supports his friends no matter what the situation is?
Well I believe love can be in any form - materialistic or feelings or thoughts.

You just have to love yourself 1st to know what love is and what loving others is!!
But nowadays the whole definition of love has changed- People do love themselves but that's it, they hardly care about what others feel. For most of the people self-love has become more important than anything else. Even if it means hurting someone else's feelings.
I guess I understand why this happens!!


When we love our friends/partner/family or anyone else, we expect them to behave in a certain way.. we expect them to do whatever we have done for them. That's when love takes a different meaning..It becomes selfish, which to an extent it should be. But expecations hurt.. hurt a lot!!!!

And when your expecations are not met.. that is when relationships start to become sour.. they start hurting and become a burden.. you feel like its just you whose making efforts, and the other person doesn't care at all..
That's when relationships end and well they end at mostly a bad note..with lots of good and bad memories.
But these memories and experiences only help you grow.. They helped me mature a lot..

So the next time when I get into a relationship- whether friendship or love- I'll keep in mind to keep my expectations very low.. So that if they are not met, atleast I would feel less bad and less hurt the next time.

I would mark this post as a new beginning, a lesson and a new approach of living life..

P.S.- sorry for bit immature language.. would try writing better next time :D :)
Thanks Shaurya Garg for inspiring me to write... :)